Hey, highly motivated peeps! Ready to put in the work to create YOUR ideal life? 

Tired of waiting until another day to feel empowered?

Are you looking for steps that help you go from hobby to passion? Do you need to stay productive?

Does sitting around waiting for things to happen to make you antsy? If yes, nice to meet another antsy person. I always knew I was different because while most people just take downtime for what it is, I, however, must fill it in.

Here are 3 action tips for the motivated mom to get started today. These will get you moving towards the void you are trying to feel. 

You are not anxiously jumping from project to project because you are bored. It’s because you have not found the thing that full fill and motivates you.

You just not any person, you are purposeful, inspirational and meant for greatness. I am sure you felt it. The feeling when you know you should be doing more.  The reason you are here today is not by coincidence; you have purpose and intention. The intention of making things happen instead of waiting for things to happen. Besides, all you need help with is finding a clear path so you can get started.

Action Step 1.Create Your Ideal Life (Passion & Purpose)

Easier said than done, right? I am sure there are so many things that you’re passionate about and help others is high on your list.

That’s fine, but you have to start with one focus then you can later incorporate others.

If I had it my way I would be a motivational speaker, teen counselor, organizational product designer ( I have so many designs that need to be created), oh and did I say life coach. But, starting with step 1 has made things much easier for me to stay focused.

Related articles that you are required to read NOW!


Part 1: Finally! Real ways to find your life purpose

Part 2: 5 Clever ways to find your purpose in life

Part 3: How to do something you love and feel purposeful 

Be sure to dive in and read with intention and pick a finish date so that you remain focused. For example, this week on the calendar write down “Find my Passion.”

Action Step 2: Make Clear and Actionable Goals


Ever heard a goal without a wish is a dream? I want you to stop wishing things would change, stop wishing you had time, stop wishing upon a star. And make things happen.

Make the change today that will make your tomorrow different. 

I am sure you enjoy growth just as much as I do so take the necessary investments TODAY!

Week 2 if you have found your passions the narrow down your goals you will be a lot clearer today than you were yesterday.

I like to focus on specific categories so that I am not overwhelmed by setting too many goals at once. 
 Make an umbrella with overall goals in each category then pick one or two to add your next steps too.

I choose eight categories, but you can make what correlates to your life.

Here are a few posts to get you started on your goals. 

Find the eight categories @ step by step guide for setting goals for beginners.

Find the perfect motivation to achieve goals successfully

How to crush your goals like a boss

Action Step 3: Focus on Your Skill and What Makes You Unique

I know…doubt a way of eating at your ambition. But guess what.

Get over it because you are here, which a step in the right direction. Because you are powerful, you have a purpose, and you will succeed.

Trust me not everyone feels that nudge in their gut like you do. You know you know what I’m talking about. You feel it because you’re special! 

But having doubt and fear of the unknown can’t hold you from your real purpose.Since the goal is to control it and not let it control you.


Below are some of my favorite women empowerment books that will change your life

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You Are a Badass: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life  by Jen Sincero

You are a Badass by Jen Sinero is a great book that will whip you into shape. I prefer to read my book over audio but if you rather listen than this is a book worth listening too. She narrates her own story. Hope you’re not put off by some swearing because this how-to guide has easy exercises to remove doubt and live your ideal life.

Lean in: Women, Work and the Will to Lead by Nell Scovell and Sheryl Sandberg 

Lean in is a book written by  Nell Scovell and Sheryl Sanberg ( chief operating officer of Facebook) dedicated to helping all women achieve their ambitions. I love how the title motions that women should lean in and not just be observers. This book gives steps on little things to do to change your position with your career.

#GIRLBOSS by Sophia Amoruso

#GIRLBOSS is a good read if you’re ready to kick yourself into gear. She will take you on her journey from her low living life to make a business decision that changed everything. If you’re looking get inspired, learn from your mistakes and tips on becoming your own entrepreneur then pick up this easy to read a book. All you need is one night!

For podcast to listen to while you’re driving the kids to school or working out check out 7 empowering podcasts you need to listen too by Be Free Project.

Best women blogs to visit:

Career girl daily 

The everyday girl 


Entrepreneur: Women Entrepreneurs 

These several are small steps to warm you up and get you back on track and create your ideal life. 

Are you a motivated mom on a mission? What gets in your way of doing what you want to do? Share your dreams out loud below, it the first step to overcoming fear. Let’s turn your vision of yourself into your current life. 

Stay motivated and Inspired to Build the Life you Deserve!

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About Darla

I’m Darla, a working mom here to help you organize, stay motivated and pursue your goals.


  1. I like everything what can help me to improve my life ? Every day I’m trying to do that but don’t see any results so I need to check your tips:)

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